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Money – we all want it, but few of us are willing to sacrifice to get
it. Those that have it generally don't understand it, and those that
don't have it come up with excuses why they can't get it. If this sounds
confusing – it is.
For all that we have accomplished in the
United States in the last 200+ years we have failed miserably at
teaching our children the basics of money management. I am not talking
about stock and bond portfolios but rather the basics of spending less
than you make, understanding of credit, and how to balance a check a
book.
We are inundated daily with credit card
commercials that show how great life can be – just charge it. We are
enticed to buy things that we don't really need though the use of zero
percent financing – but only while it lasts. We are motivated to consume
anything and everything in pursuit of the American dream but no one
ever talks about the consequences of our actions.
The Secret To Wealth
I could literally be kicked out of the
financial community for divulging the one secret that has been so
closely guarded by the credit card companies, the mortgage companies,
the banks and WallStreet for so many years. This secret, of course, is
the true road to wealth and happiness. It is irrefutable, undeniable and
absolutely achievable. If you implement this one secret in your life –
you will be rich and you won't be able to stop it.
The Secret: Spend Less Than You Make
That's right. This is the one secret
that no one wants you to know because the more you save – the less the
credit card companies make. The more you save the less in fees that
Wall Street makes. The more you save the wealthier you get.
The 10 Laws Of Money
1) Money Doesn't Grow On Trees
"When
I was your age I had to walk uphill to school in the snow – both
ways!", "I could go to a double feature and eat all the popcorn and soda
I wanted for a nickel and have change left over!" and, of course, my personal favorite; "Where do you think that comes from – money doesn't grow on trees!"
What my father was trying to teach me
was to respect the effort that goes into making money in the first
place. My whole life my father worked two jobs, and sometimes three, to
support me and make sure that I had everything I needed – not always
everything I wanted – but always what I needed. As a young boy, of
course, I didn't fully understand the impact of what he was trying to
teach me until I got a family of my own.
People generally work very hard for
their money but then squander it by making bad financial decisions. You
must learn respect for the money you make and one of the best ways to do
this is by using an "envelope system" for a few months.
The "envelope system" is easy.
Simply cash your paycheck and put all the money into envelopes for
rent/mortgage, car notes, food, utilities, entertainment, etc. Then go
ahead and begin living your life. What the envelope system will show you
is where you are squandering your money and help you focus on the areas
of financial distress so that you can cure the problem.
Oh, by the way, there is no borrowing
from one envelope to cover a shortfall in another, when the envelope is
empty then you are out of luck until next month...so make sure you don't
spend too much of your "food" money eating out.
2) Wants Always Exceed Needs
It is always surprises me when I council
people on financial planning the shear look of horror that comes across
their faces when I mention the word "budget". It is almost as if I have just asked for them to amputate both arms.
However, a budget is the only way to achieve financial success in your life - you have to spend less than you make. I hear all the time; "You don't understand – I needed a new car", "...we needed a bigger house" or "...we just have to have our annual vacation."
The difference between a "want" and a "need"
can sometimes be small and insignificant, but, most of the time they
are on different planets. Did these people need a new car – maybe, but
they could have bought a 2-year old car that looks great and saved 30%
on depreciation. Did they really need a bigger house or could they have
gotten by in the one they are already in. These are all the questions
that you have to ask yourself.
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These are your needs – everything is a "want". Keeping the "wants"
under control is a huge first step in your financial wealth. So,
before you buy something tomorrow – stop and think about it – is it a "want" or a "need".
Your Life Is Worth 60%
In planning your life, and spanning the gap between "wants" and "needs",
build a budget after analyzing your spending patterns keep your
committed expenses at or below 60% of your gross income. That's right –
that leaves 40% of your gross income just hanging out in the wind, but
more on that in a moment.
Now, 60% is not a magic number but it is
a realistic goal to work toward and, at any rate, it's a good place to
start. However, once you start using this method, you really won't need
to track your expenses because your checking account balance will
generally be equal to the amount of money you can spend. The key is
keeping a lid on those committed expenses.
What About The Remaining 40%?
That 40% is what you paid yourself, and your family, with first. Let's look at an easy example:
Joe makes $100,000 per year and is
in a 25% tax bracket. Once he is paid, $17,500 goes into his company
retirement plan, pretax, OR 17.5% of our 40% goal. Joe is already
almost halfway to his goal.
Joe then deposits $458.33 per month,
($5,500 annually) into a Roth IRA for himself and an additional $458.33
each month into a Roth IRA for his wife. Since these are AFTER-TAX
investments we need to adjust upward by adding the taxes back in which
would value the total of the $11,000 in annual contributions at
$13,750. So far Joe has already saved 31.25% of his goal of 40%.
Joe then deposits $730 into an
investment account each month, via automatic deposit, which is an
additional $8,760 a year making up the balance of the savings goal.
Joe then has a final net paycheck he
deposited into his bank account which is equivalent to 60% of his gross
pay after all deductions. Each month Joe spends everything in his bank
account. He doesn't have to worry about saving anything because it has
already been done and Joe learns not to miss the money piling into his
savings accounts because he never got to see it in the first place.
The real secret to building a budget
that really works isn't tracking what you spend any more than counting
calories is the secret to losing weight. The key is creating a
sustainable structure for your finances, one that balances spending and
income, and leaves enough room to handle the unexpected.
3) The Poor Are Debtors
This is a simple rule – "You can not borrow your way to wealth...period."
You will never see a late night infomercial on how to build your way to
wealth by swapping debt between low interest credit cards.
For a lot of people, part of the
difficulty in reducing committed expenses comes from the need to make
big monthly credit card payments. If you're carrying a substantial
amount of non-mortgage debt, I'd suggest using the 20% that would
otherwise go to retirement and long-term saving to aggressively pay down
your debt -- but only after you cut up those cards.
Every dollar in interest that you don't
pay is just like getting a guaranteed risk-free, and tax-free, return on
your money equal to the interest rate on the debt. When your debts are
paid off -- and it won't take long using 20% of your gross income --
immediately redirect that money back into savings.
Here are 15 signs that indicate you are not managing your financial life correctly and are hindering yourself from becoming wealthy:
1) Your credit card balances are rising while your income is decreasing.
2) You are only paying the minimum amounts required on your accounts, or maybe even less than the minimums.
3) You're juggling bills. For example, you apply for another credit card and use cash advances from it to pay an existing card.
4) You have more credit cards than a successful gambler has poker chips.
5) You are at or perilously near the limit on each of your credit cards.
6) You consistently charge more each month than you make in payments.
7) You are working overtime to keep up with your credit card payments.
8) You don't know how much you owe and really don't want to find out.
9) You have received phone calls or letters about delinquent bill payments.
10) You are using your credit card to buy necessities like food or gasoline.
11) Your credit cards are no longer used for the sake of convenience, but because you don't have money.
12) You are dipping into savings or your IRA to pay your monthly bills.
13) You are hiding the true cost of your purchases from your spouse.
14) You're playing the card game by signing up for every credit card that sends you an unsolicited offer.
15) You have just lost your job, or are fearful that you are about to, and are concerned about how you will pay all your bills.
The 1st step in becoming wealthy is to quit using credit cards –of any type, for any reason.
The Credit Card Rollup Solution
If you want to get rid of your credit
card debt – no matter how large – the following method will work in no
time. You just have to get serious about doing it.
Step 1) Sit down and cut up all of your credit cards – ALL OF THEM.
Step 2) List the balances for each card from LARGEST to SMALLEST and the minimum payment for each.
Step 3) Pay the minimums for each card on the list and 5 times the minimum for the smallest card balance.
Step 4) Repeat each month. Don't
worry about paying off the debt with the highest interest rate first.
This approach gives you some quick wins. It's like losing five pounds in
the first week of a diet.
Step 5) When the smallest credit
card has been paid off ROLLUP all the money you WERE paying on the
smallest credit card and apply all of it to the next card on the list
INCLUDING the minimum payment you were already making on the
previous card. By the time that you get to your last credit card –
which will be the one with the highest balance you will be putting huge
chunks of money on the card each month. Before you know it – you will be
debt free.
Step 6) When you are finally free of
all of your credit cards – reward yourself. Take the next two months of
payments you were using to pay off your last credit card and buy
yourself something.
Step 7) After you reward yourself –
it is time to get back to saving. ALL OF THE MONEY that you used to pay
towards the credit cards – now goes into savings. You have a lot of
ground to make up and this is a good way to get there.
4) Moral & Physical Hazards Don't Apply
I remember watching "Fear Factor" and realizing that people will do anything for "quick and easy money" – "Sure, Joe, I will eat those South American Hissing Cock Roaches for $50,000." Yet, these same individuals won't do the financially smart things, and sacrifice their "wants," in order to save that same $50,000.
In America we have been raised to be
financially lazy. We are unwilling to do what is necessary to become
rich yet we will play the lottery, which is nothing more than a poor
man's tax, in hopes of becoming a millionaire. Yet the sad statistic is
that 80% of lottery winners are broke again within 10 years because of
bad financial management.
Like David Letterman, I should start a segment on
"Streettalk with Lance Roberts" called
"Financially Stupid Human Tricks" and highlight some of the things that we are enticed to do by lenders in the name of
"financial management" such as;
Borrow From Your 401(K)
Companies don't have to offer a loan
feature with their 401(k) retirement plans, but according to the
Employee Benefit Research Institute, most of them do. Eighty-three
percent of American workers covered by 401(k) plans can borrow against
their accounts, and about two in five participants have an outstanding
loan.
People who borrow from their workplace
retirement funds, meanwhile, love to think it's a smart move, since when
they repay the loan they're essentially paying interest to themselves
rather than to a credit-card company or other lender.
This is true, but 401(k) borrowers also
could be putting their retirements at risk. If they lose their jobs or
get fired, the loan must be repaid, typically within 60 days. If that's
not possible, and often it's not since people who lose their jobs don't
tend to have a lot of cash sitting around, the outstanding loan balance
is taxed and penalized as a premature distribution. That can equate to a
penalty of up to 40% or more, depending on your tax bracket, in taxes
and penalties in addition to the amount that you borrowed.
It gets worse, since you can't put that
money back. Whatever the money your borrowed might have earned in future
years is gone forever. If you had borrowed $7000, the average
outstanding loan balance, and assume an 8% return, that loan could cost
you more than $75,000 in future retirement funds.
Never touch your 401(k) plan – like your
home equity. If you screw everything else up in life you will have a
roof over your head and food to eat.
Stretch To Buy A House
Beware, homebuyers. Everyone around you is conspiring against your financial best interests.
Your real estate agent wants you to buy
the most expensive house you can: the higher the price tag, the bigger
their commission. Why do you think they always show you a house that
can't afford first? This is because when they show you the house you
CAN afford – you will only remember all the nice things that were in the
house you couldn't afford. The next thing you know you are stretching
to buy a home way out of your price range.
Your friends, and family also may get
into the act, telling you it's okay to stretch for that mortgage, since
rates are so cheap and your income will eventually rise. Maybe, maybe
not, but anyone who's been house-poor knows the emotional, psychological
and financial stress of stretching too far.
Buying too much house should mean giving
up other things you want: vacations, eating out, a college fund for
your kids, a sufficient retirement kitty. However, what it means to
most, intentional or not, is piling on ever more debt, as you borrow to
try to maintain your lifestyle.
5) The Best Things In Life Are Free
Too often we equate spending time with a
loved one, or with our family, with going somewhere and doing something
that can quite quickly become very expensive. However, isn't the
purpose of the outing just to spend time communicating and interacting
with those that we care about the most?
Learn to be creative.
Board games at home, sports in the front yard, water balloon fights,
$0.99 cent movie rentals and homemade popcorn, theme nights such as "Stay up as late as you can" or "Slumber party" – it really doesn't matter what you do, you can still have a lot of fun and in a lot of cases – it won't cost you a dime.
Laugh At Your Neighbors' Overspending - Petty? Yes! Helpful? Definitely!
After all, trying to keep up with the
Joneses may be what got you into financial trouble in the first place.
Realizing that the Joneses aren't as well off as they seem -- and are
struggling with debt-related stress as well -- can make keeping up with
them a little less attractive.
The average family of four has $100,000
of debt between mortgages, credit cards, car loans, etc. That means that
50% of all families have even more than that in debt. Currently,
consumer debt, not including mortgage debt, is at historic highs while
personal incomes fail to increase fast enough to cover the shortfall.
So, using your neighbors financial
stupidity as a measuring stick for your own successful money management
is a great way to keep you on track for your goals. Go ahead, deride the
neighbors for financing everything they buy or feeling superior for
winning a better mortgage rate, thanks to lower debt loads.
Never underestimate the power of bagging
on someone to make yourself feel better – just not to their face. You
do still want to be invited to dinner every now and then.
Remember that your peace of mind is,
ultimately, what living frugally is all about. You are living today for
what you want tomorrow. So, whether you're paying off debt, saving more
or simply living within your means, you're trying to avoid the fear and
stress that plague people who aren't in control of their spending.
Remembering that can help you avoid burnout, stick to your plan and get
you to your goal that much quicker.
6) Money Can't Buy Happiness
That ole' cliché is only spoken by those that don't have money and are unwilling to go get it. It is true, however, that "Money can't buy happiness" but it sure can buy a whole lot of whatever comes in second.
7) There Is No Such Thing As Five Easy Payments
Don't get sucked in by finance schemes.
To many times people try and rationalize that they will use this credit
card or that financing plan because it has zero percent interest. It
doesn't matter. If you can't afford to pay cash for the item
immediately, on the spot, then you have no business buying it. Most
likely it is a "want" anyway.
Debt is debt in all shapes, forms, and
fashions. Ultimately, it is the fine print that traps you and
pushes you further away from attaining your financial goals.
8) A Wad In Your Pocket Is Better Than Your Pants In Wad
Unfortunately, 50% of all marriages in
America end in divorce. The number one reason is financial distress. We
all want the good things in life and we generally make emotional
decisions versus logical ones. If you want to get out of debt, and be
free of the financial stress that comes along with it, here are seven
radical realities to get your pants out of a wad and put a wad in your
pocket.
Reduce Housing Costs.
Do you really need a pool in the backyard? Do you really need two extra
bedrooms that are being use to store clutter and junk? People generally
buy way more house than they need. Reducing your monthly mortgage
payments by dropping the size of your house can put a lot more cash into
your pocket.
Drop A Car, Gas, Maintenance, and Payments
-- imagine the money you could save if you gave up one household car,
or found other ways to commute and run errands. Or trade in your car on a
two or three year old car to reduce your monthly car notes.
Get (Another) Job.
You don't have to work nights and weekends forever, but if a part-time
job gave you an extra $300 a month, that's $3,600 you can put toward
debt this year.
Quit Your Vice.
Your indulgences can add up fast. Giving up your smoking habit can save
you thousands of dollars a year. Eating out can add up fast too – so
brown bag your lunch and start cooking at home. It isn't convenient –
but it's the financial smart thing to do.
Live moderately. Shifting priorities, and locations, can help downsize your lifestyle. .
Let the kids go public.
According to the Council for American Private Education, the average
cost of private elementary and high school is about $4,689 a year. You
are already paying for public school in your annual school taxes – might
as well get some bang for your buck. Don't think your child will learn
as well as they would in a private school? How about taking some time
out of your schedule to work with them at home – it's free and you will
create a lot more with your child than just a smart kid.
Tap Your Crap.
Garage sells, EBAY and a host of other avenues these days offer you
outlets to get rid of all that crap you have accumulated over the years –
and it may just generate a few extra bucks towards paying off debt.
I understand your initial reactions to
most of this but once you start adopting some these guidelines you will
begin to discover other avenues to begin to live within your means and
begin to take the steps required to live a happy and wealthier life.
9) Dress For Success
All too often I see people driving
expensive cars, dressing in $1000 outfits and wearing enough jewelry to
make Mr. T jealous – yet they don't have a penny saved to their name and
enough debt to declare themselves a federal deficit.
If you ask those who've already become
millionaires what their lives are like, you might be surprised. I highly
recommend the book, "The Millionaire Mind," by Dr. Thomas J. Stanley, author of the best seller "The Millionaire Next Door." He surveyed nearly 1,000 of the nation's millionaires, and what he found may surprise you.
First, he sorted out those who were "balance-sheet"
millionaires and those who simply lived an affluent lifestyle while
burdened with debt. Balance-sheet millionaires tended to own their homes
without a mortgage, while those who merely lived a wealthy lifestyle
carried jumbo loans. Millionaires with assets between $2 million and $5
million live, on average, in homes that are valued at $355,000 (based on the IRS database figures).
The millionaires in his survey tend to
have started businesses, and have built their wealth by finding a
profitable niche. They tend to love what they do and are motivated by
building the business, not by building wealth.
They live comfortable lifestyles, but
are not wasteful. In a fascinating example, most of the millionaires in
the survey report they buy expensive shoes, but almost all have them
resoled. For the most part, they remain married to supportive and
responsible spouses who run economically productive households -- from
clipping coupons to buying household supplies in bulk. Bottom line: They spend less than they earn.
When it comes to investments, these
millionaires look to the stock market primarily as a place to grow
capital once their businesses have matured. They are not speculators in the markets, rarely visit a casino and almost never buy lottery tickets.
Of course, you might figure that they don't need to speculate, since
they're already wealthy. But perhaps these stable qualities are the
reason they got wealthy in the first place.
However, if you put a pair of pantyhose on your head and ask for money – that generally works as well.
10) Live Like No One Else Today
As Dave Ramsey often states: "If you live like no one else today – you will be able to live like no one else tomorrow." Rich
is good. Retiring that way is easy. You just have to commit to a
lifestyle of being financially smart and of being a good saver. This, of
course, will cause you to be a sworn enemy of the credit card
companies, a villain to the banks and ultimately ostracized by the
"Jones'" for not keeping up with them.
But in the end it will be you that is
laughing all the way to the bank with a wad of cash in your pocket, an
emergency fund in the bank, a steady income from your investments to
live on and not a worry in the world. Now, wasn't the sacrifice in the
beginning worth it?
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